I hate it when people tell me what my son should and shouldnt be wearing... "He shouldnt wear this, he's hot!" blah blah blah!!! I KNOW what he should and shouldnt wear.. im not stupid! My son hates the heat, he sweats easily, he'll go crazy if he gets too hot! He's use to the AC. I dress me son according to where we go and what we'll be doing!
I really hate it when people tell me the red marks on his face are from the milk n shit.. i know that! I hate it when people tell me to wipe his face more etc... I know that! I wipe his face and hands like how many times a day! He gets the red marks cuz he rubs his face alot, it's not like i can keep my eyes on his 27/4 and stop his from ruining his face! All babies get it... so what are u freakin bout?
I hate when people i dont know carry my baby without my permission! Its like i turn my head for a second, and then i see my baby in some strangers arms.... walking around taking my baby outta my sight.... WTF? i really dont like that! They should atleast have the courtesy to ASK ME "Can i hold your baby?" -Is it that fucken hard!!!? It's just the same as... -You need a smoke, but dont have a lighter... U borrow someone elses lighter... Would u ask "Can i borrow ur lighter?" Or would u just take it and use it?
Maybe imma new mum and its normal for people to just take ur baby and carry them... but for me, i dont like it, and if u carry my baby without my consent, i already "Hate you!" yes.. hate is a strong word.. thats why im using it as a definition as to how i feel towards those stupid dumb asses!
I also HATE it when people tell me how to raise my kid. For gods fucken sake! Just bcuz imma new mum, it doesnt mean i didnt do my research! I do know how to read, and i do know how to ask and watch.... Im the type of person who likes to learn from my mistakes, and learn on my own. I dont and will never like people instructing me and telling this is how its done. Yes, i can tell the difference between "Advices" & "Do it like this!!!"
I also hate when some mutha fuckers just come up to me and try to take my baby outta my arms. Bitch, u ask or u dont fucken touch my property! Accidents happen, and what if u hurt my baby? Ur life is worth nothing to me! My Ryan is Priceless! Its just like how some pregnant mothers dont like their belly's to be touched... some people just go & touch preggy lady's belly without even asking... some women are sensitive and really dont like it... its like a private thing.
Another thing.... Just cuz you've given birth to 2, 3, 4, 5, 6 ,7, 8, 9, 10 babies, doesnt make u a "Know it all, im right" mum. Look at some mums with lotsa kids..... see how they turned out?? It doesnt mean "you" can do better than me! Just cuz i have 1 baby, and im new to motherhood... i can very well prove to ur fucken face that im better than you! If u had help from parents, friends, relatives or in-laws, then "Shut the fuck up!" Raise ur kid on ur own, prove urself, then "I will shut the fuck up."
Damn its like they even be saying, does he sleep in a sarong? What brand is his bottle? what brand is his pacifier? this is not good, u should buy a longer pacifier... etc... god just shut up and take care of ur own kids! I know how to raise my Ryan, i know whats best for him... CUZ IM HIS MOTHER!!!
Fuck.... Just keep ur crap to urself, cuz i dont wanna hear it! Either gimme advice, or shut up!
Well, i havent lost any weight! Probably the BCP's stopping me from losing weight.... My ass is 38", Hips 28", Waist ( U dont need to know & neither do i !!! ), Bust ( Bigger than before ;) ) My tummy is the only thing that pisses me off, the rest im ok with. Ive always wanted a bigger ass and wider hips, and now i have it, so im happy! Even before, my figure was "ok" no matter how slim i was, and how flat my tummy was, my waist never looked that curvy. I guess its my body shape. I never had a coke bottle figure. But now, i can kinda say i kinda have a coke bottle figure,due to the pregnancy expanding my ass & hips! Since i already have broad shoulders.....(only my tummy need work!!!)
My Ryan's got a Bday invitation from a chick! lol!!! A little gurl ;) Its Ryans god fathers, brothers daughter. I dont know how old she'll be turning... but her and her sister love Ryan.. theyre always asking bout him if he's not around. We'll, its not like Ryan can do much when he goes... just sit there and get stared at, poked and touched lol! So cute!!!